The 3 Cues of Approaching Anger
People who have difficulty with anger often claim that it comes
without warning and happens in a "split second". This is rarely the case.
An anger episode always has warning signs, which may include the
following:
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Cognitive (thinking) Cues
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These cues are thoughts that may lead to anger, not actual angry
thoughts. They may include thoughts of frustration or subtle
negative evaluation of a situation (e.g., becoming frustrated in
traffic on the way to work or home and arriving ready to experience
anger).
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Physiological Cues
- Early physical
reactions are often very good indicators that an angry outburst is
about to happen. Increased heart rate, muscle
tension (particularly facial muscles) and short, shallow breathing
can all signal approaching anger. Different individuals may
also show different early reactions.
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Behavioural Cues
- These cues
include early warning signs rather than behaviour that occurs during
anger. Early behavioural cues may include being fidgety, tapping
with the fingers, pacing and other individually specific signs
(e.g., scratching the head, cracking
fingers...etc).